Cordelia Gaffar

The Art of Intimacy
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The Art of Intimacy: Opening the Doors to Your Joy begins on April 8th

In case no one else has told you; a life filled with joy is your birthright!

Are you a Black woman? Would you like to turn “IT” off sometimes and let someone else do all the things? Have you distanced yourself from your body wisdom? If you answered yes, I am here for YOU! Reclaim your Ultimate-Joy! You may not realize it but your body wants you back. Be present in your body like never before.

It’s leap year, which means that we get 29 days in February!

Vibration matters and the vibrational meaning of 29 is

(2) Harmony

(9) Transformation awakening

and in calendar format you get to experience your intimacy transformation with harmony and balance.

There are also journal pages included to capture your experience and voice memos are also highly recommended. Also you may chose to join my private LinkedIn Group (https://www.linkedin.com/groups/12966627/) to enhance your experience.

Mindlessness is the Real Issue: Let’s Make Distinctions

There is sex. And then there is great sex.

There is being orgasmic. And then there is being multi-orgasmic.

Everyone who has sex is not having great sex.

Everyone who has an orgasm may not have more than one.

Most women do not have orgasms. Not even one.

Most men don’t know that they can have more than one orgasm.

Most people don’t know that sex is sacred.

Most people don’t know that when you reach orgasm that is a form of enlightenment.

My call is back to soul love.

The Ultimate Joy Goddess

Self-nurturing is Freedom. I am the multi-dimensional genius who birthed the book called Detached Love: Transforming Your Heart So That You Can Transform Your Mind. Detachment is about freeing your soul to truly love in all of its highest attributes. The last episode on the Free to Be Show, I unveiled my masks. The layers that had encumbered me for years, a choice I made out of fear. These past six months I have been healing my craving for fear with joy. Joy mongering to be exact has been my medicine. I invite you to watch the Free to Be Show and see yourself and listen for the masks you are consciously and unconsciously choosing in every day, in each interaction. Detaching from judging yourself for all the things you haven’t received and only focusing on gratitude for what is meant for you elevates your soul.

Eartha Kitt went to South Africa at the height of Apartheid and still performed because she had the presence of a sequoia tree. Imagine having that level of body wisdom. Eartha Kitt is also the original Self-Nurturing Diva! There is no coincidence that she was an international success and a Black woman at the height of even more overt worldwide racism than we experience today. Would you like to no how she replenished and showed up for herself? 

29 Days to Leap Into
Your Intimacy

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Cordelia Gaffar is the Ultimate Joy Goddess

Cordelia Gaffar, the Ultimate Joy Goddess and  CEO of Cordelia Gaffar Enterprises, is a bestselling author, speaker, and host of The Free to be Show podcast.

Cordelia’s journey led her to rediscover many ancient body wisdom mindfulness practices, intertwining from aboriginal cultures across the globe. The result? The Four Mind Alignment (TM), unveiled in November 2022 after two years of client studies and five years of research.

This transformative methodology empowers women to be fully expressed and completely embodied in her natural leadership merging ancient wisdom for total well-being. Cordelia’s approach builds on her Replenish Me (™) process, featured in “Detached Love” (2020), promoting self-nurturing through food, movement, and sleep.

Now, she offers Embodiment Experiences in intimate group coaching and retreats, inviting women to a journey of self-discovery and replenishment. Cordelia is a former CFO and veteran home educator to her six children, three of whom have graduated going on to serve in the US Navy and become entrepreneurs in their own right. Subscribe to the Free to Be Show as we explore joy, enlightenment, and the transformative power of Cordelia Gaffar’s wisdom.


Cordelia was inducted into the Global Library of Female Authors in 2020 and is the recipient of multiple awards including the Top National Influencer, Sexy Brilliant Leader, and the Brainz Global 500 Award of Influencers and Entrepreneurs for 2021 and 2023. She also won Podcast of the Year in 2022, and was named Best Podcast Host from Powerhouse Global in 2019.

She left her position as CFO for a small IT firm in Washington DC nineteen years ago to homeschool her six children. Cordelia has been featured on America Meditating Radio, British Muslim TV, South African Radio 786, Soul Wealth Radio in Washington DC, and Fox News.

Hire me to Speak To Joy

The Calendar

with Four Mind Alignment

Dr. Thandi

“If you want to learn research based, practical, easily actionable strategies read DETACHED LOVE by the renowned international speaker, author and life strategist Cordelia Gaffar.”

Dr. Neema

” You create a safe space for women to share, connect and grow”

❤️Do you want to STOP your frustration? 

❤️END your suffering?

❤️QUIT overthinking?

❤️How would it feel to live each day in freedom and joy?

Exceptional Professional

I am delighted to write a recommendation for Cordelia Gaffar. Cordelia is an exceptional professional who has a unique talent for empowering and inspiring others.

As a speaker, author, and coach, Cordelia is passionate about helping individuals and organizations reach their full potential. Her expertise in wellness, leadership, and personal development has made a positive impact on countless people, and I do not doubt that she will continue to do so.

In addition to her impressive professional achievements, Cordelia is a joy to work with. She is reliable, and communicative, and always goes above and beyond to exceed expectations. Her positivity and energy are infectious, and she has a natural ability to connect with people from all walks of life.

I wholeheartedly recommend Cordelia to anyone looking to take their personal or professional life to the next level. She is a true asset and a pleasure to work with, and I am grateful to have had the opportunity to collaborate with her.

A firebrand, a movement, a phenomena. Cordelia is leading the way for many women to be who they are.
Cordelia is also very sensitive and has an old wisdom soul, it’s a pleasure to work with you Cordelia,
More power to you! and Thank you! :revolving_hearts: #SexyBrilliant

Devina Kaur

“Ms. Cordelia, is a testimony to what genuine spirituality should look like from within. After just one
session, Ms. Cordelia, helped me to realise my next venture, which I dedicate in your honor. Thank you
for all that you do, we need more positive examples like you.”

Shara Lewis

“Cordelia Gaffar brings her quiet power and coaching intelligence to all the transformational work she does.
I had the great pleasure of being a guest on one of her podcasts, and her great questions and
creation of the experience showed my why her work is so popular.

Steve Chandler

You have already changed my work and world view on self-forgiveness.

Tanja Bogataj

What I’ve read so far is AHHMAZING!!!! Yes I said AHHHHHMAZING!!It’s so on
point. Putting the focus back on us and total self care. It’s so important. I can’t
wait to read it in its entirety.

Anita Hawkins

Cordelia Gaffar is sincere in seeking to empower and encourage women of all ages to be free and authentically who they are. She has crafted a unique system to bring body, mind and heart together, drawing on ancient wisdom, yet accessible to modern women. Let her guide you home … to yourself!

Robin Rose Bennett

Cordelia makes a beautiful and honest impact wherever she goes and wherever she showcases what it means to show up. Cordelia is truly a thought-leader, unique in her approach in heart and mind. I was honored when she agreed to discuss the topic of Allyship for the recent @L&D Cares Career Growth Summit during the section dedicated to Diversity, Inclusion, and 21st Century Competencies. Her approach via Replenish Me, to hone in on what it means to act with civil courage and heart to help one another rise up was excellently received.

Elizabeth Lembke

Passion for transformation: be it work, culture, talent, or HR as Chief Talent Navigator. Publisher Transforming Talent Insights – Director L&D Cares: Career Growth Lead – Co-Host RCIRCLE – Co-creator.space – HRimprov